How slow can it go....

16/04/2026

Some years ago, I suddenly realised I had created a persona of being a very sexually forward woman- taking pride in how quickly I could achieve pleasure.  

But then I discovered I wasn't actually listening to my body. SHE had a slower language—sometimes needing hours to open up. 

I've come to believe that many women who feel disconnected from their sexuality aren't lacking it—they've just ignored and abused HER for so long that she shuts down. Having casual sex with different partners, some too fast, some who cannot control their own lust... is affecting you much more than you can imagine. 

Understanding the power of slowlyness, but also dare to stay with it, no matter what the external circumstances are, that is a challenge.


I teach women how to slow down and listen, and how to just be, with no need to achieve or perform.
And the gift 🎁—— is even more pleasure💕✨🍉

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